Updated 1/15/2018

Most recent appearances

screen shot 2019-01-07 at 5.41.27 pmJanuary 7 –  Illuminate The Shadowlands podcast is one of the more interesting visual presentations I’ve been a part of to this point. The Christian Nomad does a great job interviewing me in this video podcast that is just over an hour long. Click Here

Most recent postings

screen shot 2019-01-08 at 3.47.15 pmThe 2018 Pornhub Statistics Should Scare the Hell Out of Everybody Normally, I do a monthly “Your Alarming Porn Statistics for the Month” entry, but I worry those sometimes get buried and I don’t want this to go unnoticed as Pornhub, the most visited pornography site in the world, often appearing in the Top 10 of all websites for traffic in the world has released its 2018 statistics. They give a chilling testimony to just how fast pornography is growing. Click Here

 

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Spotting the Signs of Pornography Addiction, Updated I’m putting a new introduction and conclusion on this blog entry, but the meat of it ran on December 11, 2017. It is the most frequently viewed article on this site and really speaks to the reason I put the site up in the first place. Click Here

 

300px-WOPR_testHow to Get 13-Year-Old Boys to Stop Looking at So Much Porn Whether during an interview or presentation, I’ve been asked dozens of times how we stop kids from getting hooked on porn. I’ve offered a rehearsed answer that sounded good, but in the back of my mind probably wouldn’t work. I didn’t know the answer. It wasn’t until I went back to being a kid in my mind that the solution became clear. Click Here

Check out older articles in the following categories:
Addiction 101                 Recovery           Alarming Statistic of the Month        The World
Stories From Jail         Trivial Ranting of the Month          Endeavors          Full Q&A List

Questions & Answers

Spotlight On Question And Answer

NEWEST QUESTION:  I’m struggling with this addiction and I need help. What now? ANSWER: That’s about as direct and to-the-point as you can get. It’s hard to get very specific because I don’t know if you’re looking once-a-week and feel bad about yourself or if this is a daily, multi-hour activity that is starting to stray into extreme or illegal territory. Either way there are some common pieces of advice I’d offer. To Continue with the Answer, Click HERE

Recent Q&A Entries

 

My first book is still available through Amazon

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Purchase the book via Amazon:
In the United States: Click Here
In the UK: Click Here
In Canada: Click Here

If you are unable to purchase the book through Amazon, I can sell it directly to you. Use the Contact page, let me know where the book should be sent and I’ll send a quote for the book and shipping.

Libraries in the world with the book:  Click Here
List updated Nov. 26 — 251 confirmed libraries now on list!

 

I’m Now Offering Peer Support Counseling

adult-adventure-baby-532508I am formally providing peer support counseling to people who are dealing with pornography addiction or those who have porn addicts in their lives who are directly affected. Consider it a stopping point between doing nothing and traditional mental health therapy. Click Here for Website

 

Select Radio, TV and Podcast Interviews (Complete list HERE):
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Need a Porn Addiction Expert for your show? Click HERE

 

Available for presentations, appearances

Web Flyer picI am now presenting “The Addiction Nobody Will Talk About” which takes a look at the looming health crisis that pornography addiction poses in the near future. If your church, library, college organization or civic group would like a non-graphic presentation, or if you would like to see where I’ll be presenting, follow the contact link.

 

If you’re looking for a quote for an article or would like me to appear on your podcast or radio show, contact me HERE.

20 comments

      1. Vanilla Ice has a movie?! haha
        I don’t think sales are as important as you having the courage of sharing all of this. But of course, I wish that everything works out!

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  1. Thank you for being open about this relevant subject! I, along with my other pastors, was never taught how to address this matter in seminary. Despite the neglect, God showed me how to extend grace to those with this struggle and help restore them to the path God has for them. Someone must speak up, and those who hear must not play the Pharisee.

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  2. I heard you on a podcast and bought your book exactly four months ago now. I finally got through the book (I’m a slow reader but also thought it wise to chew on your story daily.) You may have saved my life. I took your advice and have filed this as a cautionary tale. Read, filed, and there to read again. Many positive actions have been taken in that time span. More to come. Sleep – I must add – has proven to be my biggest ally for positive change in my life over these past few weeks over which the most change has occurred for me.

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  3. You are so welcome. As I read this reply from you to my post, I feel connected to you as not just a writer of a book but as a real person. It brings up emotions of both sadness and joy – for your hardships and your ultimate successes. I am sure much of that emotion is mine as I consider my struggles and several times when I thought my actions were about to bring my whole world down. I have had so many chances to turn it around and I feel that this will be the time when it may actually happen. Thank you again, Mr. Shea.

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  4. Hey dude,

    Thanks for following my blog – I’d try to follow you back but I don’t know how to (just got this thing).

    It’s awesome you’re doing so much for the recovery movement – much respect!

    Peace Y

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