Most recent appearances
December 11 – The Addicted Mind Podcast is hosted by therapist Duane Osterlind. I find that those who work in mental health really focus on causes and modalities of recovery. If you’re into the mental health side of things, check this out. Click Here
December 5 – If you prefer video to audio, this interview I did with Matthew Heines for his Books in Heinessight Podcast. He’s got one of the most consistently interesting guest line-ups I’ve seen and he’s a great interviewer. Check it out on YouTube.
Most recent postings
Documentary Forced Me to Revisit My Use of Porn Movies in the 1990s Despite taking two different medications for it, I will inevitably wake up in the middle of the night at least twice a week because of my acid reflux, or as I’m told it’s more correctly called, GERD (gastroesophageal reflux disease). Usually I’m forced to eat a popsicle and just sit up for an hour or two. Click Here
Recognizing Small Victories is Key to my Overall Addiction Recovery As a pornography addict for 20 years, changing my behaviors and thought patterns was huge, but now I take it for granted and should probably take a moment to recognize how far I’ve come. I think checking in and celebrating the small victories keeps them coming. I truly believe that a big part of addiction is recognizing and eventually overcoming your triggers. Wallowing in, or pretending they don’t exist is not a strategy I want to take. Click Here
What I Wish I Knew Before I Wrote My First Book As many of you who read this site regularly know, I have been working on a second book for much of this year. It’s a self-help book written with an LMFT from California that is geared toward the female partner of a male pornography addict. Click Here
How to Get 13-Year-Old Boys to Stop Looking at So Much Porn Whether during an interview or presentation, I’ve been asked dozens of times how we stop kids from getting hooked on porn. I’ve offered a rehearsed answer that sounded good, but in the back of my mind probably wouldn’t work. I didn’t know the answer. It wasn’t until I went back to being a kid in my mind that the solution became clear. Click Here
Check out older articles in the following categories:
Addiction 101 Recovery Alarming Statistic of the Month The World
Stories From Jail Trivial Ranting of the Month Endeavors Full Q&A List
Questions & Answers
NEWEST QUESTION: I’m 19 years old. I feel like I’m too young to call myself a porn addict and I don’t want to go to Sex Addicts Anonymous meetings because they make you say it there. I’m not sure 12-step groups are even for me. What should I do instead? Click Here
Recent Q&A Entries
- Should I go to rehab to get help for my pornography addiction? Click Here
- He says he wants help; I think he just wants to stay together. What now? Click Here
- Should I still go to therapy if my porn using husband refuses? Click Here
- Are PMO and NoFap effective pornography addiction programs? Click Here
- I’ve accepted I’m a porn addict, so what next? Click Here
- How do I know if I’m REALLY an addict? Click Here
My first book is still available through Amazon
Libraries in the world with the book: Click Here
List updated Nov. 26 — 251 confirmed libraries now on list!
I’m Now Offering Peer Support Counseling
I am formally providing peer support counseling to people who are dealing with pornography addiction or those who have porn addicts in their lives who are directly affected. Consider it a stopping point between doing nothing and traditional mental health therapy. Click Here for Website
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Available for presentations, appearances
I am now presenting “The Addiction Nobody Will Talk About” which takes a look at the looming health crisis that pornography addiction poses in the near future. If your church, library, college organization or civic group would like a non-graphic presentation, or if you would like to see where I’ll be presenting, follow the contact link.
If you’re looking for a quote for an article or would like me to appear on your podcast or radio show, contact me HERE.