Updated 8/15/2018

Latest Media Appearance

iceberg-12-2000-08-13August 14 Interview on Review Tales about what the release of my book has meant to my life. Click Here

Click HERE for a list of appearances.

Most recent articles

downloadYour Alarming Porn Statistics for August I’ve given quite a few presentations based on the concept of “The Addiction Nobody Will Talk About” in the last several months. Most have been to small civic organizations or private healthcare companies, although there have been a few libraries…Click Here

1.bp_.blogspot.com__asVS_j32Rx0_UkItiSHfIrI_AAAAAAAACT0_myQxvXvhihA_s640_new12177Proof Of a Soul and What I Think Happens After We Die In almost every support group or group therapy I’ve been a part of on my road to recovery, there always seems to be a few people who are preoccupied with dying. Despite the fact we’re there to talk about pornography addiction, they can’t stop quoting the Bible or babbling on about the afterlife. I guess that’s good, because it encouraged me to address what I think happens when we die, and if we really have souls at all. Click Here

venting(1)Getting Trivial Things Off My Chest – August Edition A couple weeks back I saw the Mr. Rogers’ biopic that’s been in movie theaters lately. It’s actually the highest-grossing documentary this year thus far. For me, Mr. Rogers was a signal that I was in the clear. My parents would pick me up at the abusive babysitter’s house around 3:45 p.m., when they were done with their elementary school teaching jobs. Click Here

watering-flowers-2881595Coming to Terms With My Pornography Addiction Took Me A Long Time As many of you know, I have a side business where I counsel pornography addicts or the loved one of addicts. You can learn more about it HERE. One of the people I help, who I told I would be writing this, said to me the other day, “He’s not like you, he’s not just going to accept he as a problem.” Wait, what? Click Here

555f8f6b4d2e7.imageAnother Jail Story: Visiting Days Having visitors is a weird thing in jail. It’s awesome to see your loved ones, but they are seeing you at your absolute worst and the picture in their head of you in a jail uniform talking through glass isn’t something that I think will ever leave their mind. I can understand why some inmates choose not to see anybody if they’re doing a short stint. Click Here

Check out older articles in the following categories:
Addiction 101                 Recovery           Alarming Statistic of the Month        The World
Stories From Jail         Trivial Ranting of the Month          Endeavors          Full Q&A List

Questions & Answers

Spotlight On Question And AnswerNewest Q&A QUESTION:My husband has told me that he looks at pornography, and he will stop. I’ve suggested couple’s counseling or even individual sessions and he has said no. I read an online board that says I should still go by myself. Can that really help anything? Click Here

Recent Q&A Entries

  • What does term “Gaslighting” mean? Click Here
  • Are PMO and NoFap effective pornography addiction programs? Click Here
  • I’ve accepted I’m a porn addict, so what next? Click Here
  • Does my partner hiding his addiction also mean he has hidden affairs? Click Here
  • How do I know if I’m REALLY an addict? Click Here
  • He lies so much about his addiction, what can I really believe? Click Here

 

My first book is still available through Amazon

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Purchase the book via Amazon:
In the United States: Click Here
In the UK: Click Here
In Canada: Click Here

Libraries in the world with the book:  Click Here
List updated Aug. 16 — 228 libraries now on list!

 

I’m Now Offering Peer Support Counseling

adult-adventure-baby-532508I am formally providing peer support counseling to people who are dealing with pornography addiction or those who have porn addicts in their lives who are directly affected. Consider it a stopping point between doing nothing and traditional mental health therapy. Click Here for Website

 

Select Radio, TV and Podcast Interviews (Complete list HERE):
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Need a Porn Addiction Expert for your show? Click HERE

 

Available for presentations, appearances

Web Flyer picI am now presenting “The Addiction Nobody Will Talk About” which takes a look at the looming health crisis that pornography addiction poses in the near future. If your church, library, college organization or civic group would like a non-graphic presentation, or if you would like to see where I’ll be presenting, follow the contact link.

Monday, September 8, 2018 – 6 p.m.
Rangeley Public Library – Rangeley, ME.  More information

 

 

If you’re looking for a quote for an article or would like me to appear on your podcast or radio show, contact me HERE.

20 comments

      1. Vanilla Ice has a movie?! haha
        I don’t think sales are as important as you having the courage of sharing all of this. But of course, I wish that everything works out!

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  1. Thank you for being open about this relevant subject! I, along with my other pastors, was never taught how to address this matter in seminary. Despite the neglect, God showed me how to extend grace to those with this struggle and help restore them to the path God has for them. Someone must speak up, and those who hear must not play the Pharisee.

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  2. I heard you on a podcast and bought your book exactly four months ago now. I finally got through the book (I’m a slow reader but also thought it wise to chew on your story daily.) You may have saved my life. I took your advice and have filed this as a cautionary tale. Read, filed, and there to read again. Many positive actions have been taken in that time span. More to come. Sleep – I must add – has proven to be my biggest ally for positive change in my life over these past few weeks over which the most change has occurred for me.

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  3. You are so welcome. As I read this reply from you to my post, I feel connected to you as not just a writer of a book but as a real person. It brings up emotions of both sadness and joy – for your hardships and your ultimate successes. I am sure much of that emotion is mine as I consider my struggles and several times when I thought my actions were about to bring my whole world down. I have had so many chances to turn it around and I feel that this will be the time when it may actually happen. Thank you again, Mr. Shea.

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  4. Hey dude,

    Thanks for following my blog – I’d try to follow you back but I don’t know how to (just got this thing).

    It’s awesome you’re doing so much for the recovery movement – much respect!

    Peace Y

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