Most recent appearances
Virgin Beauty B!tch Podcast – In this 25-minute interview, we talk a lot about society being afraid to take on the discussion of pornography addiction. This is also the first interview I’ve done where I’m interviewed by a man and woman at the same time. Click Here
Amy Talks – This is my first interview with a UK-based podcast. In this 15-minute interview we discuss what parents can do to keep their kids away from pornography and talk about UK legislation that would make IDs necessary to access porn web sites. Click Here
Most recent postings
Compartmentalizing is a Myth I was reminded today of one of those “a-ha!” moments that came often in early recovery when somebody I work with through my PornAddictCounseling.org site talked about how he always found life easier when he could compartmentalize. It wasn’t until near the end of my stay at inpatient rehab for porn addiction that I realized the concept of compartmentalizing is a lie addicts tell themselves. Click Here
My Pornography Addiction was About Power and Control, Not Sex I probably should have recognized this early in my recovery, but I’ve come to realize that my addiction to pornography was just an extension of who I was at the time: Somebody struggling greatly with a lack of power and control to the point I’d fool myself into believing I had both by almost any means necessary. Click Here
Is it Possible for Addict to Go From “Recovering” to “Recovered?” If you’re reading this on the day I wrote it, April 2, 2019, today marks five years of sobriety from alcohol. I also count this as my sobriety date from pornography, although it technically was a few days ago. If you would have ever told me I’d go five years without either of my nearly life-long addictions, I’d have said it could only happen once I was put in the ground. Click Here
Questions & Answers
NEWEST QUESTION: I’m struggling with this addiction and I need help. What now? ANSWER: That’s about as direct and to-the-point as you can get. It’s hard to get very specific because I don’t know if you’re looking once-a-week and feel bad about yourself or if this is a daily, multi-hour activity that is starting to stray into extreme or illegal territory. Either way there are some common pieces of advice I’d offer. To Continue with the Answer, Click HERE
Recent Q&A Entries
- Should I go to rehab to get help for my pornography addiction? Click Here
- I feel like I’m too young to be a porn addict. What should I do? Click Here
- He says he wants help; I think he just wants to stay together. What now? Click Here
- Should I still go to therapy if my porn using husband refuses? Click Here
- Are PMO and NoFap effective pornography addiction programs? Click Here
- I’ve accepted I’m a porn addict, so what next? Click Here
- How do I know if I’m REALLY an addict? Click Here
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I’m Now Offering Peer Support Counseling
I am formally providing peer support counseling to people who are dealing with pornography addiction or those who have porn addicts in their lives who are directly affected. Consider it a stopping point between doing nothing and traditional mental health therapy. Click Here for Website
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Available for presentations, appearances
I am now presenting “The Addiction Nobody Will Talk About” which takes a look at the looming health crisis that pornography addiction poses in the near future. If your church, library, college organization or civic group would like a non-graphic presentation, or if you would like to see where I’ll be presenting, follow the contact link.
If you’re looking for a quote for an article or would like me to appear on your podcast or radio show, contact me HERE.