Updated 9/20/2018

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dreamingWaking Up From Dreams Makes Me Sad When I go on podcasts or radio shows to discuss my pornography addiction and people asks what’s the worst thing that has come out of my last five years, first from my heinous mistakes, then my legal ordeal, and the fallout since, I usually talk about how I’ve created victims and can’t change that fact. Click Here

131030093152_1_900x600The Day I Truly Entered Recovery From Pornography Addiction Was… …the day I stopped waiting for other people’s advice or tricks to be the magic bullet solution. I’m now just over 4.5 years sober from porn. I would have told you then that M/O (masturbation/orgasm) was also an issue, but once the porn went away the M/O reduced by 98%. I was a porn addict. Click Here

http_cdn.cnn.comcnnnextdamassets160711142343-new-york-jfk-airportYour Alarming Porn Statistics For September I’ve learned a lot about how everything we ever do on a computer is recorded. Everything. It’s in your hard drive, even if you think you’ve erased it and if you’re using one of those “here and gone” apps like Snapchat…there’s no such thing as here and gone. Click Here

Check out older articles in the following categories:
Addiction 101                 Recovery           Alarming Statistic of the Month        The World
Stories From Jail         Trivial Ranting of the Month          Endeavors          Full Q&A List

Questions & Answers

Spotlight On Question And AnswerNewest Q&A — QUESTION My husband has a pretty bad porn addiction and knows it, but doesn’t seem to want to do much about it. If this is a real addiction, would an intervention work? Should I at least tell other people in his family and see if they can help? ANSWER This is another tough one there is no easy answer for. I want to immediately say no, but in my case, it was helpful. Click Here for More

Recent Q&A Entries

  • He promised he’d stop looking at porn, but didn’t. Now what?  Click Here
  • What does term “Gaslighting” mean? Click Here
  • Should I still go to therapy if my porn using husband refuses? Click Here
  • Are PMO and NoFap effective pornography addiction programs? Click Here
  • I’ve accepted I’m a porn addict, so what next? Click Here
  • Does my partner hiding his addiction also mean he has hidden affairs? Click Here
  • How do I know if I’m REALLY an addict? Click Here

 

My first book is still available through Amazon

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Purchase the book via Amazon:
In the United States: Click Here
In the UK: Click Here
In Canada: Click Here

Libraries in the world with the book:  Click Here
List updated Aug. 16 — 228 libraries now on list!

 

I’m Now Offering Peer Support Counseling

adult-adventure-baby-532508I am formally providing peer support counseling to people who are dealing with pornography addiction or those who have porn addicts in their lives who are directly affected. Consider it a stopping point between doing nothing and traditional mental health therapy. Click Here for Website

 

Select Radio, TV and Podcast Interviews (Complete list HERE):
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Need a Porn Addiction Expert for your show? Click HERE

 

Available for presentations, appearances

Web Flyer picI am now presenting “The Addiction Nobody Will Talk About” which takes a look at the looming health crisis that pornography addiction poses in the near future. If your church, library, college organization or civic group would like a non-graphic presentation, or if you would like to see where I’ll be presenting, follow the contact link.

 

If you’re looking for a quote for an article or would like me to appear on your podcast or radio show, contact me HERE.

20 comments

      1. Vanilla Ice has a movie?! haha
        I don’t think sales are as important as you having the courage of sharing all of this. But of course, I wish that everything works out!

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  1. Thank you for being open about this relevant subject! I, along with my other pastors, was never taught how to address this matter in seminary. Despite the neglect, God showed me how to extend grace to those with this struggle and help restore them to the path God has for them. Someone must speak up, and those who hear must not play the Pharisee.

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  2. I heard you on a podcast and bought your book exactly four months ago now. I finally got through the book (I’m a slow reader but also thought it wise to chew on your story daily.) You may have saved my life. I took your advice and have filed this as a cautionary tale. Read, filed, and there to read again. Many positive actions have been taken in that time span. More to come. Sleep – I must add – has proven to be my biggest ally for positive change in my life over these past few weeks over which the most change has occurred for me.

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  3. You are so welcome. As I read this reply from you to my post, I feel connected to you as not just a writer of a book but as a real person. It brings up emotions of both sadness and joy – for your hardships and your ultimate successes. I am sure much of that emotion is mine as I consider my struggles and several times when I thought my actions were about to bring my whole world down. I have had so many chances to turn it around and I feel that this will be the time when it may actually happen. Thank you again, Mr. Shea.

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  4. Hey dude,

    Thanks for following my blog – I’d try to follow you back but I don’t know how to (just got this thing).

    It’s awesome you’re doing so much for the recovery movement – much respect!

    Peace Y

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