My Newest Book is Now Out!!

My newest book, “Porn and the Pandemic: How Three Months in 2020 Changed Everything” is scheduled to be released the first week in July.

Covering the strange times starting in March 2020 when the world went into lockdown because of COVID-19, this book talks to pornography addicts, internet cam models and experts to get their opinion of the longterm effects of the coronavirus on the pornography addiction community.

You can pick up the new book on Amazon by clicking HERE

My second book geared toward the partners of pornography addicts, co-written with Tony Overbay, LMFT is still available through

If you would you like to read an unbiased opinion on the book, either check out the glowing reviews on Amazon, or look at this blog: Review from Mental Health @ Home

First Book New Cover

My first book, a memoir about my descent into porn addiction, The Addiction Nobody Will Talk About: How I Let My Pornography Addiction Hurt People and Destroy Relationships is available on Amazon with a new chapter that was added in late 2019. If you’d like to learn about how somebody ends up where I did, this is my recollection of events that led to my eventual rock bottom. Link to the Book on Amazon

Most recent Blog Postings
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GUEST POST: There’s More on the Other Side of the Camera Than Sex “I have something I need to tell you,” said Daryl, a 32-year-old client who has been watching pornography since he was 13 and recently lost his job after being caught viewing it on his company phone. “The reason I have struggled to stop watching porn is because I like it.”

A Different Kind of Porn Addiction We May Start to See When I started writing my latest book, the intention was to look at how recovering porn addicts were faring during the COVID-19 pandemic. I think we may need to start looking elsewhere, too. Click Here

I Can Finally Make My Big Announcement! I have been chosen as one of 8 people out of around 100 applicants to make a presentation at TEDxHartford in December! I’m finally giving a TED Talk! Click Here

The Grateful Eight: The “Four Years Since I Got Out of Jail” Edition You wouldn’t know it to look at the comment section or follower numbers to this site, but a lot of people check out this website daily. I still think it has to do with publicly going on the record about pornography. It’s a stigma that probably isn’t going anywhere for a while. I do get a lot of private messages directly to my email — and actually a lot to my LinkedIn page now — and one of the repeat requests I get is to talk more about my time in jail. Click Here

20 Years Later, My Question Is Answered …one of the things he reminded me of was a conversation that we had 20 years earlier that he said he’d had with a handful of people since where I asked aloud what the Internet was going to do to the next generation when it came to their standards of acceptable, normal sexuality. Click Here

My Newest Book Has Been Released! It’s always a lot of fun to write that title on one of my website posts. I’ve only been able to do it three times now, but each time, it feels like a massive exhale. Up until this point, the process of getting a book out is very private and solitary. Now, the words that I feverishly worked on, that I think are good enough to share with the world in perpetuity, that I believe are so worthwhile that they should have a small price tag behind them — it’s all out there for the world to see. Click HERE

REDDIT: Anti-Racist? Yes. Anti-Porn? Nope. It’s nice to see corporations put their money where their mouth is, or to put their actions where their words are and in the wake of the civil unrest of the last month, many organizations seem to be making changes, both substantial and symbolic, or in the case of NASCAR banning the Confederate Flag, both. Click Here

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