My Son’s 18th Birthday is Forcing Me to Reflect on Aging

Tomorrow is my son's 18th birthday. That means today is his last day of being a child, which means this is my last day of having kids. My daughter is 21 and bought a house last month. She's not coming home. My son is waiting to hear back from colleges where he's applied. I understand…

Check Out My Short Film on Addiction/Recovery Posted to Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/p/CKrqaK-jQAJ/ Please, if you have a few minutes, check out this video I was asked to make for an Instagram page about addiction and recovery. I'm proud of it and hope it'll help a few people. Feel free to like and share and follow me on Instagram or other social media. It's always challenging to…

Is There An Actual Definition of Pornography?

In the over 200 interviews or presentations I've given about pornography, there's one question that comes up more than every other, and I think a lot of people who are very passionate about this subject still haven't answered it in their own mind: Is there an actual definition of pornography? I do want to state…

This is Not a Loss for Pornhub, Nor A Victory for Us

There's been a lot of attention paid to Pornhub in the last week on social media following the New York Times running a well-circulated story about underage pornography, rape and sex trafficking that is passively supported by the site. If you haven't see the story, I urge you to check it out HERE. Other outlets…

What the Students at the University of Maryland Want to Know

This past Monday, I was able to partake in my favorite activity when it comes to pornography addiction education. I gave a short virtual presentation to a psychology class at the University of Maryland. More importantly, I was able to answer their questions. I see the presentation part of things as a chance to just…