REDDIT: Anti-Racist? Yes. Anti-Porn? Nope.

It’s nice to see corporations put their money where their mouth is, or to put their actions where their words are and in the wake of the civil unrest of the last month, many organizations seem to be making changes, both substantial and symbolic, or in the case of NASCAR banning the Confederate Flag, both.…

What Do You Do When You Have Two Moral Positions on a Collision Course?

Aside from the obvious "Being a good husband/father/provider" answer, I believe that just about the most important thing in my life right now is being an advocate on the topic of pornography addiction. I've got a new book coming out in July, a much bigger announcement coming (within the month) and for the first time…

Empathy Does Not Mean Agreement, It Means Understanding

Way back when I was going through my legal ordeal, I had to take 101 assessment tests to determine if I was deemed a risk for "reoffending" because I committed a sexual offense. Everybody who ever administered a test or has been a therapist of mine knew the results before the tests happened, but it's…

The News Isn’t Getting Much Better Regarding Porn Use During the Pandemic

Depending on exactly where you are in the world, you’re just on either side of the two-month mark as it pertains to the quarantine with COVID-19. If you’re here in the United States of America, you’re seeing a lot of cities and states stick their toe in the water as it pertains to reopening. I…

Porn Addiction & the Pandemic: Let’s Talk OnlyFans

Note: This entry was originally written in April 2020. There is a version with newer information fro August 2020 you can find HERE. It talks about potential OnlyFans Addiction. I hope you'll read both. I never like to share the names of pornographic websites when I’m educating about pornography addiction. Active porn addicts are reading…