Here’s an Update on my TEDx Talk Being Released

Yeah, I'm with you. I thought my TEDx Talk would be released at this point. I can, however, provide something of an update for now. Ironically, the six other talks that were performed live online have all been published by the TED organization and can be found both on their TEDx YouTube channel and at…

Explaining the Feeling of Addiction

A challenge in talking to the loved ones of porn addicts is that they can’t understand the addict mind. They don’t share it. I’ve been trying to figure out a way to both quickly explain how deeply depraved and deceitful – yet with little remorse – an addict (really of any substance or behavior) can…

Always Staying Ahead of the Next Obsession is the New Normal in Recovery

Anybody else feel weird when a repairman is at the house, like you're not sure just how much of the process you're supposed to participate in or what proximity you're supposed to maintain? I've got the guy in my mud room right now trying to figure out why my dryer won't dry and am trying…

Sorry, But There Was No Thrill In My Addiction

I’ve found LinkedIn to be a great resource for pornography addiction information. However, much like statistics that peg the porn industry worth anywhere between $2 billion and $200 billion (just a slight discrepancy there), I’m starting to bump into information provided from professionals that I think is just flat-out wrong. This morning, I was scrolling…

Guest Post: 4 Things to Determine If You Can Trust Your Sex-Addicted Spouse

For this guest post, I welcome Eddie Capparucci. He's an LPC, CSAS, CPCS, a licensed professional counselor, certified in sexual and pornography addiction. He is the author of the soon-to-be-released book "Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction." Pre-orders are now available at  https://www.blackrosewriting.com/nonfiction/goingdeeper  Use the promo code PREORDER2019 to save 15%. He can be…