Betrayal Trauma Coaching is an Amazing Experience

I thought that the greatest thing that I've experienced since entering the coaching/advising realm was when I'd talk to a pornography addict for the first time and as he told his story, and recognized that I was not going to judge nor shame, you could see an invisible weight lifting off his shoulders. And then…

Partners of Pornography Addicts: It’s Not Your Fault, Ever

I know that I say this in every interview and write it more than once a day as one of the moderators of the Porn After Love subreddit, but it bears repeating to the partners of pornography addicts: It's not your fault and it has nothing to do with you. My porn addiction was 12…

My First Online Pornography Addiction Education Course Geared Toward Partners is Now Available!!!

I am very psyched to say that after many weeks and probably nearly 100 hours of work, my first online pornography education course is available through Udemy. It's called "Pornography Addiction Education for Partners" and for the next THREE Days (Sept. 3 to Sept 6, 2020) it is available for FREE. After that, it goes…

Ladies, Do Not Forget: You Can’t Be Afraid to Force His Hand to Make Him Face His Porn Addiction

I may not highlight this enough, but pornography addiction is absolutely insidious. It will destroy some relationships and lives, but being almost six years sober and having met and known so many porn addicts and their partners at this point, I can also tell you that if he is willing to do the work, you…

Guest Post: 4 Things to Determine If You Can Trust Your Sex-Addicted Spouse

For this guest post, I welcome Eddie Capparucci. He's an LPC, CSAS, CPCS, a licensed professional counselor, certified in sexual and pornography addiction. He is the author of the soon-to-be-released book "Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction." Pre-orders are now available at  https://www.blackrosewriting.com/nonfiction/goingdeeper  Use the promo code PREORDER2019 to save 15%. He can be…