Do Not Waste Your Time at a Therapist You Feel No Connection With

I just came back from my therapist’s office after our first meeting in nearly a month. We had to cancel an appointment from two weeks ago for whatever reason, and I think it’s been the longest gap between appointments we’ve had since I started seeing her in late March 2014. She’s not the first therapist…

Q&A Time: I’m A Porn Addict. Help.

QUESTION: I’m struggling with this addiction and I need help. What now? ANSWER: That’s about as direct and to-the-point as you can get. It’s hard to get very specific because I don’t know if you’re looking once-a-week and feel bad about yourself or if this is a daily, multi-hour activity that is starting to stray…

Q&A Time: Even if Porn Addict Husband Doesn’t Go To Therapy, Should I?

QUESTION: My husband has told me that he looks at pornography, and he will stop. I've suggested couple's counseling or even individual sessions and he has said no. I read an online board that says I should still go by myself. Can that really help anything? ANSWER: I don’t think it will come as any…

Q&A Time: Reader with Porn Addiction Wonders What To Do Next

QUESTION Hi. I really like your site and I promise I'm going to buy your book when I get enough money. I think that I am a porn addict. Or maybe I should say I know I'm a porn addict, but it's not that bad yet, but I want to stop before it is. Do…

Q&A Time: Does Hiding a Porn Addiction Mean He Hid Affairs?

QUESTION: I know my boyfriend is addicted to pornography. That's obvious. He's a very sexual personal overall, making comments and jokes about never being satisfied. Of course, he won't admit he's an addict, but I wouldn't expect him to. Since he’s addicted to pornography, does this mean he cheated on me? ANSWER: I think this…