Betrayal Trauma Coaching is an Amazing Experience

I thought that the greatest thing that I've experienced since entering the coaching/advising realm was when I'd talk to a pornography addict for the first time and as he told his story, and recognized that I was not going to judge nor shame, you could see an invisible weight lifting off his shoulders. And then…

Q&A Time: Did He Come into Our Relationship as a Porn Addict?

QUESTION: My husband says that he became a porn addict only in the last couple of years. I have a hard time believing that. I think he was a porn addict long before I ever met him. What do you think? ANSWER: Depending on how long you’ve been together, he either was already there or…

Q&A Time: My husband has a porn addiction – Should I tell other people in his family and see if they can help?

QUESTION My husband has a pretty bad porn addiction and knows it, but doesn't seem to want to do much about it. If this is a real addiction, would an intervention work? Should I at least tell other people in his family and see if they can help? ANSWER This is another tough one there…

Q&A Time: Does Hiding a Porn Addiction Mean He Hid Affairs?

QUESTION: I know my boyfriend is addicted to pornography. That's obvious. He's a very sexual personal overall, making comments and jokes about never being satisfied. Of course, he won't admit he's an addict, but I wouldn't expect him to. Since he’s addicted to pornography, does this mean he cheated on me? ANSWER: I think this…

Q&A Time: Reader wonders about her husband’s lies around porn usage

QUESTION: I *KNOW* my husband is a pornography addict. He’s a landscaper and watches it on his phone at work. That browser history is full of dirty movies. At home, he likes to watch porn at night after I go to bed, but he says he doesn’t watch it every night because he also watches…