Guest Blog: Understanding Depression During Addiction Recovery

Note from Josh: While I take an extended break this summer, I wanted to provide some kind of content, so Patrick Bailey was once again nice enough to contribute several entries you'll read over the next few weeks. By Patrick Bailey People who have gone through withdrawal or have witnessed someone suffer because of addiction…

Is it Possible for an Addict to Go From “Recovering” to “Recovered?”

If you’re reading this on the day I wrote it, April 2, 2019, today marks five years of sobriety from alcohol. I also count this as my sobriety date from pornography, although it technically was a few days earlier. If you would have ever told me I’d go five years without either of my nearly…

Latest Q&A: What does ‘Gaslighting’ mean?

QUESTION: My husband is a porn addict. I’ve heard the term “gaslighting” used in this situation. What does it mean? ANSWER: I know there are more technical definitions for gaslighting, so I’ll just handle the been-there, done-that side. Essentially, it's the pure form of manipulation where I deflect, accuse and confuse. Gaslighting is me making…

First Guest Blog: Google Trends Data Gives Insight Into US Addictions By State

Note from Josh: This is the first time I'm presenting a guest blogger. Aeden Smith-Ahearn approached me with some research he was working on and wondered if I'd like to share it. Upon looking at the map he's created, I think he shows just how prevalent sex and porn addiction is in the US. I also…

For Addicts, the Best Advice Can Sometimes be the Worst

People just want to help, but when it comes to medical advice – which addiction recovery methods are – sometimes they miss the mark thinking that every nugget of wisdom is one-size-fits-all. I have found this to be particularly true of some of the members of the mental health community and those who are firmly…